teach your kids to be nice to each other. it makes me livid when i see kids who are mocked and friendless. it’s always seen as this shameful thing to say you were bullied, the word itself is glib and brings to mind images of kids throwing insults around like “four eyes”, shit no one really cares…
it’s really irritating that the word bullying has such a trivial connotation to it because i honestly believe bullying is abuse
It is abuse. It literally is abuse. Everything that bullying is; name-calling, intimidation, assault, etc. is abuse.
People just like to devalue that b/c they don’t take children seriously enough to either believe the victims or engage with and challenge the perpetrators.
Boost it, electrocute it, rocketship it
She is currently behind Justin Bieber and Katy Perry.
Can we please not let that happen, thanks
That’s good as that’s apparently all I talk about rn. But thank you
“Communication, consent, and trust are so vital to [BDSM], and the absence of those qualities in popular fiction and/or in societal understanding of BDSM is what causes people to view it as dangerous and abusive.”
the attitude that BDSM is only ever ‘viewed’ as dangerous & abusive and not actually often, you know, actually dangerous and abusive, and p. directly enabling of abuse (by abusive people, simply because of what it is, like the level of trust & communication needed makes it p. easy for abusers to uh, abuse) is v v tiring
sex is very often dangerous and abusive, whether kinky or not
its a tool that abusers use all the damn time
the kinkiness just changes the dynamics of that abusiveness and the ease of use as a tool of abuse because of what kink *is*.
it’s all because of Charlie that i took a total 180 and became an angry queer socialist feminist
they corrupt everyone they touch and by corrupt i mean make better people OBVIOUSLY
(ppl either get corrupted or they Get Out Of My Life.)
this is the true me
if you don’t love my bff Tesla then idk what to tell you ‘cause you’re very wrong